Who I Am: A Tell-All about my Gender and Sexuality

Although a lot has changed lately, I finally feel like I’m in the right head-space to write again and I’ve decided to start with a tell-all. I’m going to take you through how I learned that I’m not only pansexual and demisexual, but also genderfluid. Let’s jump right in, shall we? Figuring Things Out I …

What’s in a Name: Choosing my Name

Let’s talk about name. They’re fairly common these days, I’d say, and you have a wide variety. Birth namesNicknames (from yourself and from others)Names you loveNames you can’t stand What goes into choosing a name? Apparently, lots and lots of effort for some and absolute ease for others. I know how folks typically name their …

Genderfluidity and Dysphoria: My Experiences

My name is Eli, and I am genderfluid. I use they/them pronouns and the Mx. honorific. Being genderfluid means that my gender identity shifts on a spectrum, be it day-by-day or even moment-by-moment. Personally, I would say that I am agender about 60% of the time, bigender 30%, and female 10%. I present androgynously and …

Candidly Me: Thoughts and Such

Do you ever feel like everything you think/say/do/feel has already been thought/said/done/felt? Like there’s no way for you to contribute any originality to this world? I feel like that all the time, but somehow I don’t let it stop me from thinking/talking/acting/feeling. Does that even make sense? I want to tell you a tale, my …